TwilightEL
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Welcome to the new "Women in Comics" thread continued from the All About Comics Thread because I don't want to let it drop and neither does Wade and I also don't want to get banned!
THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH JEALOUSY. I am complaining about how women are drawn with sexual features prominently featured! I'm complaining about how boobs come first and ***-kicking second! I'm complaining about unrealistically thin, yet big-boobed women! Not because I'm jealous or they hurt my self esteem, but because I want women who would logically be muscular to be muscular and I want them to be in poses people will actually strike while fighting monsters and supervillains! I DON'T CARE IF THEY'RE HOTTER THAN ME. I'M NOT TALKING ABOUT WHETHER SUPERHEROES SHOULD BE DRAWN LESS SEXY OR HEROIC SO PEOPLE WON'T BE JEALOUS. I'M TALKING ABOUT SKINNY WOMEN WITH NO MUSCLES FLAUNTING THEIR BOOBS AND BUTT IN THE MIDDLE OF A FIGHT.
I was done with this thread and McCheese contributed to the discussion in General Comics:
I don't want to track down everything he was quoting, so look at his original post to find out what he's talking about. Sorry.
TwilightEL is female. Mavericker is crazy Jesus man. And everyone else is trying not to like a pervert.
Lets face it; every girl I know who reads comics (all two of them) hate the way women are portrayed in every modern comics. You know why? Because they aren't very pretty, and they feel insecure while looking at drawings of Women with such voluptuous bodies. How do you think guys feel when reading Superman? Actually, not that jealous. I'm not one to speak, as I have unstoppable, rippling muscles, but rather than envy and loathing, it's usually a feeling of admiration. Every female in comics is unrealistically beautiful; over-sexed and with anatomy that puts most supermodels to shame. But what a men? Good, upstanding guys who fly around in tights (often as revealing as the outfits of many female characters) with perfect muscular structures. Even guys who shouldn't. Literally, every guy is ripped, the same way that every chick has a DD-bra size.
It's intimidating. To many it's offensive. You don't like the way that women are drawn in comics? Don't read them. Because I can't think of one flattering, ultra-feminist character who doesn't dress like a whore. Most of the comic market is male, and then want to see an unrealistically muscled Superman punch through walls while the Huntress runs around in her underwear. Don't like it? Stop reading comics. Write Marvel or DC an angry letter. Organize a group of like-minded feminists and wave some signs around. God knows that that sends across the right message.
Thing is; it's this way in every form of media. Every form. You watched any movies lately? You don't get to be a movie star unless you're attractive. You know why? Because no one wants to watch ugly people and be reminded of just how unattractive they are. It's the way the world works. Wonder Woman wouldn't sell if she was over weight. Or even if she dressed like a normal person. So Mavericker can call me a sinner...I don't care, I'm a Muslim who decided he was an Atheist at the age of 13. The word of Jesus doesn't mean much to me. I like pretty girls and I like badass men. I mean, you complain about how every girl is a slut, and even girls (like the new Question) who are strong and interesting characters, are lesbians, and naked in bed with other women all the time. Well, every guy has to be a super-cool, ultra-pimping Badass who's beating the hell out of criminals. Both the Superman and Batman archetypes present this.
Every girl I know watches Smallville. It's a ****ty show, and I watch it, simply because I want my Superhero fix on TV. Why do they watch it? Because Tom Welling is a good looking guy. Do I want to be reminded every day that I don't look like Tom Welling? Hell no. Do I want to drool over Erica Durance? Hell yeah.
I think I just got bingo! You're going to have to scroll down a bit. I'm done talking about this.
Okay, I lied. One last thing: Wade says that he/men don't envy/get upset at muscular superheroes, but then not only fallaciously assumes that I am/women are jealous of idealized females, he says I am/women jealous of their sexual features, not muscles.
This post makes no sense to me whatsoever. Type normally. You're making my brain hurt.
whats shes saying is that just cuz you think it might be offensive, might not mean that she finds it offensive.
I wasn't sure whether you were referring to men and women in general or me and you. Here's a more clear version:
Wade says that men don't envy muscular superheroes so women shouldn't be jealous, but then not only fallaciously assumes that women are jealous of idealized females, he says women are jealous of their sexual features, not muscles.
I refuse to discuss this in this thread as it will spiral out of control and I will probably get banned.
I didn't say anything was offensive. Just the opposite, actually. What I'm trying to say (and apparently, no one's listening) is that there are just as many guys gratuitously running around without shirts on as their are females. Just as much fanservice for gay guys as straight guys.
Nothing is offensive. Get over it, people. They're just drawings that make a story.
Apparently, you decided that the link was to a feminist rant site and you didn't have to read. I swear, this time I really mean it, I'm not discussing this further:
You're only jealous because you don't look like that.
1: How the **** would you know? You're on the internets.
2: The appearance of the critic makes no actual impact on the appearance of whatever they are critiquing. If the complaint is valid, it's valid, whether the commenter looks like Vampirella or the Creature from the Black Lagoon.
3: Insulting the (imagined) appearance of someone who disagrees with you instead of their actual argument is so low and moronic a tactic that it is generally abandoned by ten-year-olds when they hit puberty. Yes - sad but true - you are that boy on the playground responding to "It's my turn on the swing" with "YOU'RE UGLY AND YOU SMELL!" This is called an "ad hominem" argument. Ad hominem is Latin for "you don't actually have an argument, do you?"
So you want comics full of ugly fat chicks?
No. Most likely, your critic want comics full of women treated as realistically as men are, in the same manner, with as much variety in face and body type. Apparently, you find that threatening and have jumped to an exaggeration of their argument that also demonises fat and those who don't fit the cultural beauty standards. This says nothing flattering about you.
If you don't like them, don't read them!
This is one of those arguments that reasonable people often make, unable to see why feminist comics fans spend time and energy discussing and deploring sexism in superhero comics when there's just so darn much of it. Why not, the argument goes, simply stop reading? Give up comics altogether, or find alternatives to the superhero books that infuriate you so.
But that's not good enough. Most feminist fans hate sexism, but love superheroes. I know that there's something about costumed people beating the crap out of bad guys, invading alien armies and each other that makes my heart happy. If there are explosions, so much the better! And the fair number of books that get it right is evidence that it can be done.
But most importantly, your critic has every right to complain about sexism in comics because – crazy thought! – sexism is wrong, whether you think it's a waste of energy or not.
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But men are drawn unrealistically too!
This is probably the bingo point that causes the most fuss. When otherwise enlightened persons use the argument and are consequently informed of their gaffe, they tend to respond, baffled, "But I'm RIGHT! They ARE!"
Yes! You are right! Nowhere but in comics or other carefully controlled media does one find such stunning physical specimens of manhood. Comic book guys often have symmetrical features, are well- (often over-) muscled and are generally good looking.
However, you don't find many of them striding along in bathing suits and high-heeled boots, wrenching their backs out as they hurl their hips around and thrust their tumescent, massive penises and firmly rounded butts at the reader.
Why? Because that would look ridiculous. So why isn't it ridiculous when it's done to female characters?
No one would deny that the average superhero team contains more attractive men than you would find walking down the street anywhere but Hollywood. But there is a substantial difference between the unrealistic portrayal of men and women that relies heavily on gendered stereotyping of what is attractive. Men must be strong! Women must be sexy!
So when you say "But men are drawn unrealistically too!", the bingo player reads "Men are drawn to look strong and handsome, and that's why you shouldn't complain about Frank Miller objectifying Vicki Vale's talking butt."
I did read it, TwilightEL, and since there's no point in typing out another long post about this, as you are not discussing it any further, I won't. And I still stand by my original point; Rather than having men in sexy positions, they're in dashing, heroic positions that no one could ever hope to match. Do people even read my posts, or just assume that I'm an idiot and don't have anything of real value to say?
And when I was writing about how attractive said females who read comics are, I wasn't talking about you. I think that's the one point that your crazy feminist site makes; you could be stunning, or you could be horribly obese. I don't really know. But I specifically mentioned the only two girls that I know who read comics.
THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH JEALOUSY. I am complaining about how women are drawn with sexual features prominently featured! I'm complaining about how boobs come first and ***-kicking second! I'm complaining about unrealistically thin, yet big-boobed women! Not because I'm jealous or they hurt my self esteem, but because I want women who would logically be muscular to be muscular and I want them to be in poses people will actually strike while fighting monsters and supervillains! I DON'T CARE IF THEY'RE HOTTER THAN ME. I'M NOT TALKING ABOUT WHETHER SUPERHEROES SHOULD BE DRAWN LESS SEXY OR HEROIC SO PEOPLE WON'T BE JEALOUS. I'M TALKING ABOUT SKINNY WOMEN WITH NO MUSCLES FLAUNTING THEIR BOOBS AND BUTT IN THE MIDDLE OF A FIGHT.
I was done with this thread and McCheese contributed to the discussion in General Comics:
Shocking.
YES YOU CAN!
Correct. It's rarely Tomboy so much as it is low-maintenence.
Nice. Haven't seen that before.
No. I think she wins this argument champ.
Or rather whoever wrote that won that arguement and she won vicariously.
I don't want to track down everything he was quoting, so look at his original post to find out what he's talking about. Sorry.